Daddy,
Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday dear Daddy! Happy Birthday to yoooooouuuuuuu!
Hee hee. I love you, Daddy, and I wish so very much that I could be with you right now to give you a huge, long hug! In my heart, I’m doing just that…and I’m resting my head on your chest telling you how much you mean to me. I can just feel your sweater, your shirt against my cheek, hear your heart, feel the warmth and security of your embrace.
You are so much to so many people Daddy. It’s so interesting to see the common theme – the ways that you’ve touched people. Your humor, your loyalty, stability and strength of character. They keep coming up again and again as people describe what you mean to them. And they are SO right! J
The older I get, the more I realize how special you are, how rare you are… In particular, over the last few months, I’ve had moments where I nearly shuddered at the thought of what my life would have been like without you and Mama as my parents.
One of the things that I’ve been thinking about over and over is how you continue to grow. You are proof to me that to live a life in relationship with Jesus Christ is to be forever growing and stretching and learning and falling and being picked up again and again and again. Tonight I thought back to a time when you and Mama sat the four of us girls down a few years ago and poured out your hearts to us. You took the time, energy and humility to confess mistakes you’d made as parents and asked for forgiveness. Okay, so it was an awkward moment full of emotion, ha ha, but how many children have parents that attempt that reconciliation??
Your marriage graces us, your children. You really are each other’s best friend. Your love grows and matures just as your hearts and minds do. Thank you for being a faithful husband to Mama. Thank you for loving her. Thank you for showing us that love. Thank you for being proud of her. Thank you for treating her with respect. Thank you for acting like complete children around each other. J You are SILLY!
I’m so glad your silliness has been passed down to us. Life is hard and you make it fun! Thank you for that!!! Thank you for choosing to act goofy, ridiculous and completely hilarious! How boring life would be without all your weird sayings, nicknames and personas. Hee hee. I love it.
And thank you for loving me, my husband and my children. You have done so much for us over the years. Last year you were a lifeline to me and the boys while Todd was serving in Korea. We’ve said it before but that time, of living so close to each other for a whole year…was so incredible.You are such an important part of our lives.
You were the one who lead me to Christ. You were the one who walked me down the aisle. You are one who still leads me and guides me today. Thank you! The security that I feel from knowing that you enjoy my company as I do yours, that we can make each other laugh, pray for each other, apologize to each other, forgive each other, connect with each other, misunderstand each other and keep on loving each other…well, it’s much like being in your embrace, wrapped up in your arms with my head resting on your chest.
You are so much to so many people. This is just a peek into what I appreciate in you. I feel closer to you than I ever have in my whole life and yet I’m on the other side of the world. J I love you Daddy. I’m so glad you are YOU, my Dad, Todd’s father-in-law, Parker’s and William’s Grandaddy Bill!
Happy Birthday Daddy!!!
Love,
Caroline
